Hi! I’m Alejandra
Do you sometimes go to bed replaying conversations in your head?
I know the feeling!
While some kids were falling asleep after reading a book, for as long as I can remember, I fell asleep after thinking of language and words, and how they affected me and others.
And this is not because I grew up in a small city in Argentina frequented by tourists who spoke foreign languages...
I've been focused on language because with our language, we have the ability to heal, connect, and support, but also hurt, separate and destroy!
"Language is one of the most powerful tools we have to shape our lives and relationships."
The curiosity about the power of language led me to devote my life to the study and exploration of language and communication.
At first, I was convinced I could crack the code through academia. I studied linguistics, psycholinguistics, sociolinguistics, language acquisition, translation, and interpreting.
And you know what? None of the fancy degrees helped me realized how to use language powerfully to shape my own life or relationships!
I lost many friends, didn't know how to set healthy boundaries, felt misunderstood by my family, and could not be authentic when I felt angry, uncomfortable, or vulnerable.
I had to learn to connect with and understand myself before my language and communication could become the bridge to connecting with others.
I realized the process of connection and understanding starts with an awareness of my inner communication - how I talk to and relate to myself.
Through a long committed and ongoing process of self-exploration, I delved into yoga and eastern philosophy, meditation, Buddhist psychology and psycho-spiritual inquiry, Non-Violent communication and other communication approaches, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and consciousness, leadership, and transformation theories.
My integration of these disciplines and methodologies gave way to Language Alchemy - a process that transforms limiting communication patterns, helps you find your own authentic expression, and brings confidence, compassion, and connection.
When you free yourself from self-limiting communication patterns and communicate with awareness, you
- direct your life towards authenticity, meaning, and aliveness;
- have harmony, shared power and sustained intimacy in your relationships;
- bring equality, compassion, and courage to your communities.
I now know how to have and maintain deep friendships, a more authentic relationship with my family, a sacred partnership with my husband Matthew, thriving professional collaborations and a sweet and playful connection with our two kitties Miles and Meena!
With clear guidance and compassionate presence, I have the honor of witnessing my clients transform their lives and relationships by transforming their language.
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