Language Alchemy

Love Out Loud

Conscious Communication for Couples Workshop Series 

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Love Out Loud

Conscious Communication for Couples Workshop Series

Fall 2019 – Winter 2020

As Rainer Maria Rilke writes “For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.” 

Being in a committed loving long-lasting relationship requires devotion, energy, work and constant conscious communication. 

When we are able to express ourselves authentically with our partner and listen with openness and empathy, our love flows and allows us to face any stage and circumstance of our life together with presence, maturity and sacred intimacy.


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You and your partner are invited to a series of day-long conscious communication workshops for couples to:

  • Learn and practice conscious communication tools for deeper intimacy, connection and togetherness

  • Shift communication patterns that lead you to fight, shut down, or avoid one another when you are upset

  • Gain and elicit compassionate understanding of each other 

  • Open up to one another with love, kindness and vulnerability

  • Engage in healthy conversations about difficult topics without fighting

  • Navigate inevitable conflicts with confidence and compassion 


You will engage in:

  • Guided meditations

  • Inquiry processes

  • Role play

  • Powerful communication exercises

  • Coaching by Alejandra

You will take home practical communication and self-inquiry techniques and an understanding of your own values – as well as tools to dissolve reactive or unhelpful communication patterns.


Who are these workshops for?

These workshops are designed for couples interested in relating to one another consciously, maturely and lovingly during all the stages and phases of their relationship.

If you wish to learn about conscious communication without your partner, check out Individuals Online Workshops & Retreats in which you’ll find conscious communication learning opportunities that can be applied to any relationship.

* If you attended other compatible workshops or classes and would like to explore the possibility of joining the group, contact me. We’ll set a phone chat to see if the group would be a fit for you. 



All workshops are on Saturdays

9:30 AM – 4:00 PM

TBA, Berkeley, California

You and your partner may attend the whole series or sign up for individual day-long workshops. 


$300 per couple for each day-long workshop

$1250 for the whole series per couple, a $250 discount!

*Discount available when you sign up for the entire series.


Day-long Workshops & Dates

Conscious Communication:  How to talk about what matters and thrive together

September 14, 2019


Peace Begins at Home: How to navigate conflicts and deepen your connection 

October 19, 2019


Strength in Our Sensitivities: How to talk about our differences and potentiate our growth and shared power

November 9, 2019


Decreasing Triggers: How to open our hearts to vulnerability and trust to foster true intimacy

January 17, 2019


Making Important Decisions: How to co-create our vision based on individual and collective values

February 22, 2019


*Discount available when you sign up for the entire series.

Don’t know what option would be most useful to you?



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Tristan and Danyelle

We already knew each other well. We’ve been dating for over a decade. but Alejandra gave us the structure and the tools to better communicate, express our love, and deal with hardships. Spending time with Alejandra was an essential part of our growth as a couple on a journey that will continue for a long time. Her words and advice have been so helpful. So much gratitude for Alejandra’s work and her care!

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Ellen & Ted

At the time we started working with Alejandra, we had been together for more than 11 years, married for 8 of those, and although our relationship on the whole felt strong and we were both deeply committed to it and each other, we found ourselves drifting apart, feeling like we were roommates more than spouses, sharing space but not really life. We began to realize that one reason for this was that we didn't know how to communicate to one another when we were in conflict without feeling like we were putting the relationship itself in jeopardy, or hurting one another and causing a great deal of stress - which neither of us wanted to do. So, instead we had fallen into a pattern of simply avoiding conversations that could lead to such conflict, and in general communicating less and less...

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What we were looking for, and what Alejandra helped us to cultivate, was a set of shared tools to help us have those difficult conversations in a way that strengthened, rather than damaged or weakened our connection, that reaffirmed our love for one another and desire to be in connection, even in disagreement.

Alejandra taught us how to hold space for one another and express ourselves to each other more skillfully. Her tools gave us a compass to navigate back to that underlying foundation of love and desire for connection we share, even when we felt lost in the woods of our differences.

Thanks to Alejandra's guidance and support during our time working with her, we now are much more comfortable and willing to have difficult conversations with each other without fear of damaging our connection or finding ourselves at a complete impasse, and through those conversations, our connection, sense of trust, intimacy and confidence in each other has deepened tremendously.

Moreover, our ability to skillfully handle conflict with others even outside of our relationship has grown by leaps and bounds in the years since we worked with her as well. It really was one of the best investments we've made in our relationship to date.

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Tara & Craig

My husband and I were having difficulties with communicating – we had married later in life and were “married” to our own individual way of doing things. Alejandra helped us learn to listen to what we each other was actually saying and what we were interpreting from those statements to find what the other person was truly trying to communicate. Her calmness and her ability to listen have helped us in patterning our own behaviors to speaking and supporting each other which has led to having a better and healthier marriage.