I am so grateful to know you and your partner would like me to be your guide as you explore how to relate to another another healthily by learning tools and practices to transform your communication.

Please read this information BEFORE you book your initial coaching consultation session at a discounted rate.

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I can support you if you're both willing to:

  • transform the way you communicate 
  • cultivate deeper awareness
  • shift communication patterns that lead you to fight, shut down or avoid one another when you're upset
  • communicate with compassion and transparency with one another, especially during conflicts
  • learn to have healthy conversations about difficult topics
  • open up to a deeper level of listening, loving kindness, and vulnerability
  • make important decisions with shared power
  • repair the bond of connection
  • learn to listen to one another with generosity and openness
  • respect each other's experience and regard it as valuable as your own
  • understand your own and each other's human limitations 
  • develop a shared value-based vision for your partnership or parenting that is respectful of your different backgrounds, cultures, and language
  • do the work needed to achieve your desired communication and relational outcomes

Who Language Alchemy® transformative communication coaching is not for

This work is not for you if you:

  • are not willing to look into how you contribute to the condition of the relationship
  • want the other person to change, but you are not willing to unlearn communication patterns that hurt your partner
  • want the other person to hear and respect you, but you are unwilling to hear or respect them
  • are seeking someone to take your side and be against the other person
  • want to keep your habit of proving you're right and showing how your partner is wrong
  • are not wiling to cultivate the humility and generosity needed to open your heart to your partner
  • are only looking to benefit yourself and are not interested in shifting your communication and behavior for everyone's benefit

Outcomes you can achieve

One of my favorite aspects of supporting couples, partners, co-parents, and parents and their adult children is witnessing two people connecting deeply with warmth, openness, and respect on a consistent basis.

When you both do the work with sincerity, you can experience some of the beautiful accomplishments I saw my clients achieve, such as:  

  • Talking about what matters without fighting
  • Feeling more connected and being able to communicate with empathy, respect and maturity without accusatory or demeaning language
  • Listening, understanding, and supporting one another, especially when you bump up against your different cultural backgrounds and communication styles.
  • Expressing individual and collective needs skillfully before tension builds up
  • Navigating conflicts in ways that lead to increased understanding, intimacy, and connection
  • Making decisions with shared power
  • Healing and strengthening the bond of connection
  • Deepening the feeling of love, respect, and gratitude for one another
  • Choosing your partner again and again

What to expect

Book a 75-minute initial communication coaching consultation session where we can talk about:

  • your communication differences, struggles, and desires

  • learn about your most unwholesome communication pattern
  • raise your awareness about how you're contributing to the current condition of the relationship
  • understand what communication tools and strategies you need to learn to transform your status quo
  • uncover your core relational need 
  • listen to your partner in a safe space with someone neutral
  • find out what kind of customized communication coaching program would be useful for you
  • and more!

This 75-minute initial coaching consultation is offered to you at the reduced rate of $350. 

If we all agree that you’d benefit from working together, depending on your current situation, needs and goals, I will suggest a customized communication coaching program for 3,6, or 9 months. 

Be aware that a transformative communication coaching program can be a 4 or 5-figure investment that will include monthly payments.  

Approaches and modalities you'll benefit from:

  • EMPATHY: I listen to both of you with full attention and non-judgment and put myself in your shoes to see life from your perspective.
  • RESPECT: I honor your inner knowing. Each of you has the capacity to develop the communication skills to express who you are as an adult.
  • REFLECTION: I offer reflections using techniques from NVC (Non-Violent Communication), NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Buddhist psychology, and Mindfulness.
  • COMPASSIONATE SOMATIC INQUIRY PROCESSES:  If you want long-lasting transformation, it's important to engage in compassionate understanding that includes all the parts of who you are and how you communicate. I guide you and teach you powerful processes from yoga, non-dualistic eastern philosophies, NLP, NVC, Buddhist psychology, somatic practices, meditation, liguistics, neurolinguistics, psycholinguistics, neuroscience, and Ayurveda.
  • ACCOUNTABILITY: I keep you accountable and committed to your communication goals. I track your journey and celebrate your growth.

What happens after you accept the coaching program proposal

Language Alchemy is not psychotherapy. It is deep transformational communication coaching. This alchemical journey leads to deep connection, understanding, compassion, and healing for yourself and each other when you do the work.

Most clients have already tried psychotherapy and have experienced more tangible, quicker, applicable, and sustainable transformations with Language Alchemy.

It is essential you acknowledge that I am not a licensed psychologist or therapist and therefore I will not be providing any psychological or therapy services, including but not limited to, diagnosis or treatment for psychological conditions or participation in crisis intervention.

While both coaching and psychotherapy can lead to deep connection and transformation with self and others, there are big differences.

Coaching

  • The focus is on understanding your present experience and your desired goals, and developing the skills to reach them
  • Coaching is action oriented.
  • At the end of each session, you will have an action to experiment with in between sessions
  • Your attention is on the how
  • Coaching can be therapeutic, but it doesn't diagnose or treat mental disorders
  • Coaching is for a concentrated period of time

Psychotherapy

  • The focus is on understanding your life's history and how your past environment and circumstances led you to your present issues
  • Psychotherapy is process-oriented
  • You usually reflect and process your life to understand why things are the way they are
  • Your attention is on the why
  • Psychotherapy can effectively diagnose and treat diagnosable disorders
  • Psychotherapy sometimes take decades or an unlimited period of time

How does all this sound?

Now that you've read all this information...

If you feel excited at the possibility of doing the work to have the life and relationships you most want, schedule your initial Transformative Communication Couple Coaching Consultation by clicking below.

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I look forward to connecting with you soon,